I wanted to give that luxurious, comfortable feeling your were looking for by bringing in a lot of soft textures and smooth finishes. The overall black, gold, and white color scheme adds a rich elegance without feeling dark or heavy.
I decided to go with all white bedding and use the pillows and throws to bring in the richer colors. I chose the white ruched bedding as the main option because I think the ruching brings in a unique look and adds volume. The second option is just as elegant, with a simpler style. Fold the duvet in thirds on the lower half of your bed for that luxury hotel look.
A mixture of textures and coordinating colors in the throw pillows is what will really be the focal point of your bedroom. Place your simple white sleeping pillows in the very back. The set of three gold, velvet euro shams will come next, followed by the super glam black and gold beaded throw pillows, and finally finished off with the faux fur lumbar pillow. This fun art-deco inspired pillow can be used as an alternate for the lumbar pillow.
To complete the look, a black throw will be placed at the foot of the bed. To break up the faux fur between your benches (that I love, by the way!) and the lumbar pillow, I selected a wool/chenille throw that's soft, elegant, and will lay nicely on top of the duvet. If you'd like that faux fur look in the throw, I also found this luxurious black blanket that will look just as nice!
How beautiful is this set of table lamps! The black base with hints of gold will look perfect on top of your nightstands, and the tall height will match the height in your headboard. An alternate option is a contemporary swivel arm lamp that's great for reading. For the ceiling I chose a beautiful beaded chandelier with simple black detail. It's sure to add glamour and elegance to the space without overwhelming it. I also love this orb and crystal chandelier for the ceiling.
I didn't want to choose a rug that would compete with the focus and glamour of the bedding, but instead compliment it. I really love the simplicity in this beige hand woven rug. Another option would be this patterned rug with a similar color palette.
A soft, flowing treatment will be given to the windows with these feminine curtain panels. The gold sequined detail ties in the gold from throughout the room and adds a high-end look to the space. To create symmetry, you can place a mirror about the same size of the window on the opposite side of the wall and frame it with the same curtain panels. An alternate option has that soft feeling with a lower price tag.
A soft gray will neutralize all of the black and gold tones and soften up the space. Order a sample of each one and try them out on your wall to see which looks best in the daylight and at night. The one used in the solution image is Benjamin Moore Stormy Monday.
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