I had so much fun styling Declan's bedroom!
You have a wonderful start to the room and some great pieces. Below is your shopping list with alternates. If there are any items you don't love please let me know and I would be happy to add more alternatives.
Your dresser is not only functional but also stylish! The safe option is choose the matching piece for the bed, this will work great in the room. If you prefer to go with something a little different, try going with a gray wash, a cool trunk style piece, or even something that adds a pop of navy to the room!
Table lamps are a great way to add function and a decor piece to any room! You can go with something a little more playful since it is a kid's room, like the lantern or plane, or a more traditional style lamp. You can add color or keep it neutral, any of these options would look great in his room!
Wall lighting is a great solution for small children! If you go with a loft style bed, nightstands will not work, which means you can only rely on the ceiling light. If you go with a lower bed and can use nightstands then you run the risk of kids knocking over a table lamp. This allows for the room to have secondary lighting in a stylish way!
All of these window coverings are neutral but add a nice touch to the space. It will tie in with the other colors throughout the room and add a bit of contrast to the lighter color decor. When hanging curtains make sure your curtain rod is 3"-6" at min. above the top of the window frame and 3"-6" either side of the window frame. You want the bottom of your panels to either just barely dust the floor or they can drape up to 2" on the floor.
You can get the look of shiplap now with easy peal and stick options! They look great and are able to remove if you want to change the room later on.
The second option to give you a more true shiplap is to visit a local hardware store and purchase all your materials. There are a lot of great DIY options available online or you could also hire a local contractor/handyman to create this look.
Mixing in travel elements, a metal letter to make it more personal, and an organic element gives this dresser a well put together look. Mount your mirror above the dresser, leave 3" at min. between the bottom of the mirror and the top.
Here are some perfect options for seating, your son can grab a book and relax!
Repose Gray SW 7015
Colonnade Gray SW 7641
Amazing Gray 7044
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